What I Expect from my Life?????????

I wanted to write down my thoughts in paper which always remains in my subconscious mind.

When I was child I was too much immature. I mean nothing strange in that as all normal child was like me.:-)))). My expectation was
§ To get first rank and high score so all people around me praise me J. Yeah little self centered but I used to feel happy when people says hey Ragini ( My mom) your daughter is intelligent specially when my school teacher!!!!!!!

But I was dam lazy to read and all…….. Just because of GOD grace I used to score good but not topper L.. As it was only my expectation but I didn’t tried and made efforts……….

§ When I went to collage I looked around crowd around me and I realized that boss I am nothing !!!!!!!!!!. I am average !!!!!!!!! and not topper in world.. but now I made my mind no this is not done. Wanted achieve at least little above the average person. Ohhhhh I am out of my subject ….. so now I wanted me to have nice crowd of friends and offcourse one best friend to share my thoughts and feelings…… Even I became little possessive abt my mom and offcourse my friends. Now expectation increased.. and still same continuous…J. Wanted to have nice family, lots of friends, enjoy, have fun ,good education and what not yeah but one was missing… I mean never thought of !!!!!!! at that time, can anyone guess it??

§ Yeah so now I will talk about my life expectation after I cleared CA and got Job. Nothing gr8 but at least achieved something.. Now I am in corporate world and seen boss abhi to jyada competition he .U need to fight and struggle a lot as I always expect myself that I should achieve something which makes feels my self proud about me and happy.and yeah offcourse my parents too… but………
now I realized one another side of life that I am girl and I need to marry with some one and to take responsibility of life partner and his family….Offcourse like normal human being even I am thinking to have life partner who understands me..bit personal so will not write more J.. .As my parents never make me realized that I am girl and can’t do what guys do for career, it is difficult for me but now I understood that what life is. New expectation and……… so now expectation changed now I should learn to adjust with my career and my family off course my parents are always priority for me…forever…

So what I mean to say here is your expectation from life keeps on changing and u expect more and more from life…. At least me ya . but one point is always remains u think big and expect more but should not feel unhappy if u won’t achieve it. Keep struggling to achieve what u want and I think we can achieve atleast littile if not full in case………
And it is really fun to have some expectation which makes u feel that LIFE IS CHALLENGE…….

Great Success Quotes

"People of mediocre ability sometimes achieve outstanding success because they don't know when to quit. Most men succeed because they are determined to."

->George Herbert Allen

"Eighty percent of success is showing up."

->Woody Allen

"Always remember that striving and struggle precede success, even in the dictionary."

->Sarah Ban Breathnach

"The most successful men in the end are those whose success is the result of steady accretion... It is the man who carefully advances step by step, with his mind becoming wider and wider - and progressively better able to grasp any theme or situation - persevering in what he knows to be practical, and concentrating his thought upon it, who is bound to succeed in the greatest degree."

->Alexander Graham Bell

"The man is a success who has lived well, laughed often, and loved much; who has gained the respect of intelligent men and the love of children; who has filled his niche and accomplished his task; who leaves the world better than he found it, whether by an improved poppy, a perfect poem, or a rescued soul; who never lacked appreciation of earth's beauty or failed to express it; who looked for the best in others and gave the best he had."

->Bessie Anderson Stanley

"Nature gave men two ends -- one to sit on, and one to think with. Ever since then man's success or failure has been dependent on the one he used most."

->Robert Albert Bloch

All that is necessary to break the spell of inertia and frustration is this: Act as if it were impossible to fail. That is the talisman, the formula, the command of right-about-face which turns us from failure towards success."

->Dorthea Bragg

"Our goals can only be reached through a vehicle of a plan, in which we must fervently believe, and upon which we must vigorously act. There is no other route to success."

->Stephen A. Brennan

"I honestly think it is better to be a failure at something you love than to be a success at something you hate."

->George Burns

About Human Being

Would like to wright about some facts of human being which I observed or experienced while passing journey of my life so far………..
· There are different types of people in world……… The difference may be in nature or attitude towards life or different qualities
Someone Is cool while someone short tempered or someone gets wild depending on situation.
I believe one facts of science applies here. Every action has reaction. For eg. If you behave aggressively with too cool person, he will not get wild as fast as short tempered but after some points of time he also loses temper and vice versa.

Few has jealous nature while someone has caring nature, someone is self centered while some one just disappears in crowd. Depending on nature u will find reserved as well as quite open people. I have even seen some people likes to remain open only with few for rest of world they are reserved.


Difference in attitude towards life
Some one takes life as it unfolds , without any future plan not even long term and lives life just for a sake of living
Someone preplans whole life even day. Has personal goal or professional goal and tries from whole heart to achieve it. For eg some people like saints i.e devotee spends whole life in prayers. Or politicians or businessman or army man etc have a goal.
Average people tries to live life as per expectation set but not so determined to achieve it.

Happiness
Someone feels he is most unhappy people in world just because of minor problem in life while some one instead of having problems always remains happy and with smile.

I always try to find out why? What is reason?
I strongly believe person nature depends on family background as well as surrounding in which he lives. I have not come across other reason till date.

Feel free to share your observation. I tried to write in as simple way as I can do. Even tried to put in proper link but may be because of some limitation In expressing things in words. And I am not author J. Even I am average human being after all……..

What is Freindship!!!!!!!!!!!

Here is collection of good slogans about friendship

• True friendship comes when silent between two people is comfortable.
• Friendship is horizon which expands whenever we approach it.
• Friendship is a single soul living in two bodies
• Friendship improves happiness and abates misery by the doubling our joy and the dividing of our grief.
• The secret of true friendship is being good listener
• A simple Friend thinks friendship is over when u have an arguments, a real Friend knows that its not friendship until u have a fight.

Chetan Bhagat’s One Night @ The Call Center

Chetan Bhagat’s One Night @ The Call Center

I read book and wanted to list out some outcome from entire book………

The book starts with asking three questions which looks very wearied and irrelevant with book story when you start……..
Those are…….
· One thing I Fear
· One thing that makes me angry
· One thing I do not like about my self….

Its story of normal human being like us working in call centre at night and author narrated all six people’s one night experience at work place which becomes turning point of life for each of them.

will not write full story

I wanted to list down some outcome from story from my analyses………

· Each one of us have self created problems in life. Someone is running behind career or someone behind girl/ or pleasing husband

· Some good analysis of bosses by drawing matrix. There are four kind of bosses in this world based on two dimensions
o How smart or stupid they are
o Whether they are good or evil
o Only with extreme good luck you get boss who is smart and a good human being

· There are four things a person need for success
o Medium amount of intelligence
o A bit of imagination
o Self – confidence
o Failure: to be successful you must face failure. You have to experience it, feel it, taste it, suffer it

· We did not know what, how or when things will happen in the future. And to some extent we still don’t know. But that is what life is like – uncertain , screwed up at times, but still fun.