Just now one of my friend mailed me NEW YEAR WISH IN ADVANCE for 2009... and i realised yes year 2008 is now ending. I should write today, as it will be last post for the year 2008.
As such we feel what big deal for new year.1st January will be same as of yesterday and 2008 and 2009 or so on .. years will be somewhat simillar like past ... years. But thats really idle way of looking at it. If i go back and think of my past 365 days as such i can say year was not so great but lots of minor things happened through which i can really differentiate it from earlier years... so its the way of looking at it...
Time to plan something for 2009
Clear CFA level 2
Gain more professionally as well as personally
Think on going back to coaching
Plan for investments for myself as well as for parents
Learn driving and musical instrument(casio)
Join GYM
Read Novels
Improve English vocabulary/writing communication
Keep blogging
Learn new cooking dishes
Soft
Keep mom and dad happy as much as i can
Help people
To be cool
Tuesday, December 30, 2008
Monday, December 29, 2008
No time for myself
After joining CRISIL, i am blogging for the first time. There was a time when i used to blog almost everyday. Writing gives me pleasure. I really enjoy when i put my thoughts/ crapes on paper. Sometime i also burst out my anger, share my happiness.. but now a days i really don't think also for a blog as i try to concentrate on my new job..
But no more single focus.. Now again i will try to come out of it and develop my personal interest too.
One new thing in my life.Suddenly i realised that there is no need to stretch out for any relation which makes you uncomfortable or always makes you think that is it really right or not? ( hmm no need to think on it.. once decided done)
I really dont understand sometime i really gets attracted for few people's friendship i mean i really like to keep in touch wit them but if that person dont respond, i really become annoyed.. I should improve on it... I mean it is really not necessary that what you think or expect, same will be by other person. but dont know i am like that............
But no more single focus.. Now again i will try to come out of it and develop my personal interest too.
One new thing in my life.Suddenly i realised that there is no need to stretch out for any relation which makes you uncomfortable or always makes you think that is it really right or not? ( hmm no need to think on it.. once decided done)
I really dont understand sometime i really gets attracted for few people's friendship i mean i really like to keep in touch wit them but if that person dont respond, i really become annoyed.. I should improve on it... I mean it is really not necessary that what you think or expect, same will be by other person. but dont know i am like that............
Friday, October 24, 2008
Memories : Larsen..............
Yeah on the last post i was talking about the change...so here it is.... I put down my papers in L&T and join with CRISIL........really exciting for me...
A really wonderful time in L&T...Yeah The moment i go back and think past three years, someone can really see a drastic change in profile which is something unusual... yeah when i joined L&T three years back with corporate taxation, at that time i had never thought to quit taxation before 5 years ..... but today if someone ask me to go back to taxation i simply react like uffff please...no way........ Ya unless nad untill you actually expirecne thing you wil never come to know whether you really like that or not...because when i cleared my CA, I was passionate about taxation. I used to spread my little gyan on taxation to all people around me even if they dont ask / or need heheehhee..
I was really doing well in work also .. but slowly i started realising that boss taxation is very dry .. because of me one case gone to special audit.. hehehhehe so you can imagine how much well i must had performed.. hehehehehe ya really i can say that assignment had changed my mind and i am here today because of SEABIRD ......
And i decided for taking transfer.. i was really fortunate to work with one of the most intelligent person in larsen and even IS .. i think in my life i will never get such cool boss.. yeah my boss was suppercoolllll even my immediate superior was also dam intelligent but i spent very less time with her as she went on leave for some personal reason for long time.. and thats main reason i got frustrated as i didnt had anyone as my senior from whom i can take help or share my thoughts... And slowly i lost interest with that department and decided to quit......finally joinng another organisation but must say within one and half i really learned is perfaction and completion of work.. I hope it will help me in future.......
Ya now coming to my last days with larsennnnnn
I really got very good response from all of my colleague with whom i had interacted.. I was really feeling nice when 3 seniors of mine showed concern and keen on asking reason of my leaving.. It seems they were really shocked like why AMI is leaving heheehhe. anyway but i felt good that few people had appreciated my work
I will never forget wonderfull colleague of L&T as well as L&T Finance.. Almost all the people had told that they all will really going to miss me....... and that was really senti statement........I will definitely going to miss all specially my department, credit and treasury...... Even my taxation IR colleagues.. I hope atleast few of them will be in touch with me..
I am excited for CRISIL. i hope this company give me break and profile where can excel ahead.........
A really wonderful time in L&T...Yeah The moment i go back and think past three years, someone can really see a drastic change in profile which is something unusual... yeah when i joined L&T three years back with corporate taxation, at that time i had never thought to quit taxation before 5 years ..... but today if someone ask me to go back to taxation i simply react like uffff please...no way........ Ya unless nad untill you actually expirecne thing you wil never come to know whether you really like that or not...because when i cleared my CA, I was passionate about taxation. I used to spread my little gyan on taxation to all people around me even if they dont ask / or need heheehhee..
I was really doing well in work also .. but slowly i started realising that boss taxation is very dry .. because of me one case gone to special audit.. hehehhehe so you can imagine how much well i must had performed.. hehehehehe ya really i can say that assignment had changed my mind and i am here today because of SEABIRD ......
And i decided for taking transfer.. i was really fortunate to work with one of the most intelligent person in larsen and even IS .. i think in my life i will never get such cool boss.. yeah my boss was suppercoolllll even my immediate superior was also dam intelligent but i spent very less time with her as she went on leave for some personal reason for long time.. and thats main reason i got frustrated as i didnt had anyone as my senior from whom i can take help or share my thoughts... And slowly i lost interest with that department and decided to quit......finally joinng another organisation but must say within one and half i really learned is perfaction and completion of work.. I hope it will help me in future.......
Ya now coming to my last days with larsennnnnn
I really got very good response from all of my colleague with whom i had interacted.. I was really feeling nice when 3 seniors of mine showed concern and keen on asking reason of my leaving.. It seems they were really shocked like why AMI is leaving heheehhe. anyway but i felt good that few people had appreciated my work
I will never forget wonderfull colleague of L&T as well as L&T Finance.. Almost all the people had told that they all will really going to miss me....... and that was really senti statement........I will definitely going to miss all specially my department, credit and treasury...... Even my taxation IR colleagues.. I hope atleast few of them will be in touch with me..
I am excited for CRISIL. i hope this company give me break and profile where can excel ahead.........
Saturday, September 27, 2008
After long time on my bloggggggggggg
System guys in my office has blocked my blog so i now i cant able to put my thoghts in my blog.. so sad!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ya in last one month i can say i have seen so many changes around me.... My office got shifted to new building so people with whom i used to spend almost whole day will not be there with me now :(( I was realling missing all of them on the first day when i shifted to another office.. but than i also become normal after second day and occupied myself in my work .. I was wondering yar.. what is this!!!. Now you need to adjust with the new people around you and it might happen that some of them you actually cant gel but still you have too. Thats lifeeeeeeee
Ya and apart from this in office so many sites got blocked including my blog :(((They feel i do time pass by updating my blogs :-)))))
Ya another new change will happen soon... Which i was trying since long.... I hope next change should be good...( will update on this in my next post )
Ya in last one month i can say i have seen so many changes around me.... My office got shifted to new building so people with whom i used to spend almost whole day will not be there with me now :(( I was realling missing all of them on the first day when i shifted to another office.. but than i also become normal after second day and occupied myself in my work .. I was wondering yar.. what is this!!!. Now you need to adjust with the new people around you and it might happen that some of them you actually cant gel but still you have too. Thats lifeeeeeeee
Ya and apart from this in office so many sites got blocked including my blog :(((They feel i do time pass by updating my blogs :-)))))
Ya another new change will happen soon... Which i was trying since long.... I hope next change should be good...( will update on this in my next post )
Tuesday, August 26, 2008
Wonderfull quotes!!!
Think like a man of action, and act like a man of thought.”
- Henri L. Bergson
“I am only one, but still I am one. I cannot do everything, but still I can do something. And because I cannot do everything I will not refuse to do the something that I can do.”
- Helen Keller
“Half of the troubles of this life can be traced to saying yes too quickly and not saying no soon enough.”
- Josh Billings
“Even if you’re on the right track, you’ll get run over if you just sit there”
- Will Rogers
“Man often becomes what he believes himself to be. If I keep on saying to myself that I cannot do a certain thing, it is possible that I may end by really becoming incapable of doing it. On the contrary, if I have the belief that I can do it, I shall surely acquire the capacity to do it even if I may not have it at the beginning.”
- Mahatma Gandhi
“You can never cross the ocean unless you have the courage to lose sight of the shore.”
- Christopher Columbus
“To a brave man, good and bad luck are like his left and right hand. He uses both.”
- St Catherine of Siena
“When one door of happiness closes, another opens, but often we took so long at the closed door that we do not see the one that has been opened up for us”
- Helen Keller
“We don’t see the things the way they are. We see things the way WE are.”
- Talmund
“Every problem has in it the seeds of its own solution. If you don’t have any problems, you don’t get any seeds.”
- Norman Vincent Peale
“If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.”
- Dr Wayne Dyer
“The problem is not that there are problems. The problem is expecting otherwise and thinking that having problems is a problem.”
- Theodore Rubin
“Pessimist : A person who says that O is the last letter of ZERO, instead of the first letter in word OPPORTUNITY.”
- Anonymous
“Opportunity is missed by most people because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work.”
- Thomas A Edison
“Blessed are those who can give without remembering and take without forgetting”
- Elizabeth Bibesco
“Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery. And today? Today is a gift. That’s why we call it the present.”
- B. Olatunji
“When you get to the end of the rope, tie a knot and hang on.”
- Franklin D Roosevelt
“Your attitude, not your aptitude, determines your altitude.”
- Zig Ziglar
“If you’re going through hell, keep going.”
- Winston Churchill
“The secret to success is to start from scratch and keep on scratching.”
- Dennis Green
“Champions aren’t made in gyms. Champions are made from something they have deep inside them a desire, a dream, a vision. They have to have the skill and the will. But the will must be stronger than the skill.”
- Muhammad Ali
“Most of the important things in the world have been accompanied by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all.”
- Dale Carnegie
“So many of our dreams at first seems impossible, then they seem improbable, and then, when we summon the will, they soon become inevitable.”
- Christopher Reeve
“Hard work spotlights the character of people. Some turn up their sleeves. Some turn up their noses, and some don’t turn up at all.”
- Sam Ewing
“There are those who work all day. Those who dream all day. And those who spend an hour dreaming before setting to work to fulfill those dreams. Go into the third category because there’s virtually no competition.”
- Steven J Ross
“Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.”
- Confucious
“Many of life’s failures are people who had not realized how close they were to success when they gave up.”
- Thomas A Edison
“The main thing is to keep the main thing the main thing.”
- Stephen Covey
“Efficiency is doing things right. Effectiveness is doing the right things.”
- Peter Drucker
“Do you know what happens when you give a procrastinator a good idea? Nothing!”
- Donald Gardner
“Success is what you attract by the person you become.”
- Jim Rohn
“You have to ‘Be’ before you can ‘Do’ and ‘Do’ before you can ‘Have’.
- Zig Ziglar
“You can have everything in life that you want if you will just help enough other people to get what they want.”
- Zig Ziglar
“The test we must set for ourselves is not to march alone but to march in such a way that others wish to join us.”
- Hubert Humphrey
“Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus when the limo breaks down.”
- Oprah Winfrey
“Formal education will make you a living. Self education will make you a fortune.”
- Jim Rohn
“It isn’t what the book costs. It’s what it will cost you if you don’t read it.”
- Jim Rohn
“You must be the change you want to see in the world.”
- Mahatma Gandhi
“The future has several names. For the weak, it is the impossible. For the fainthearted, it is the unknown. For the thoughtful and valiant, it is the ideal.”
- Victor Hugo
“There is nothing more genuine than breaking away from the chorus to learn the sound of your own voice.”
- Po Bronson
“Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.”
- Waldo Emerson
“Use what talents you possess, the woods will be very silent if no birds sang there except those that sang best.”
- Henry van Dyke
“Do not fear to be eccentric in opinion, for every opinion now accepted was once eccentric.”
- Bertrand Russell
“History will be kind to me, for I intend to write it.”
- Winston Churchill
“Life isn’t about finding yourself. Life’s about creating yourself.”
- George Bernard Shaw
“Live your life each day as you would climb a mountain. An occasional glance towards the summit keeps the goal in mind, but many beautiful scenes are to be observed from each new vintage point.”
- Harold B Melchart
“The tragedy of life doesn’t lie in not reaching your goal. The tragedy lies in having no goals to reach.”
- Benjamin Mays
“More often in life, we end up regretting the chances in life that we had, but didn’t take them, than those chances that we took and wished we hadn’t.”
- Anonymous
“An excuse is worse and more terrible than a lie, for an excuse is a lie guarded.”
- Pope John Paul I
“Don’t wish it were easier, wish you were better. Don’t wish for fewer problems, wish for more skills. Don’t wish for less challenges, wish for more wisdom.”
- Earl Shoaf
- Henri L. Bergson
“I am only one, but still I am one. I cannot do everything, but still I can do something. And because I cannot do everything I will not refuse to do the something that I can do.”
- Helen Keller
“Half of the troubles of this life can be traced to saying yes too quickly and not saying no soon enough.”
- Josh Billings
“Even if you’re on the right track, you’ll get run over if you just sit there”
- Will Rogers
“Man often becomes what he believes himself to be. If I keep on saying to myself that I cannot do a certain thing, it is possible that I may end by really becoming incapable of doing it. On the contrary, if I have the belief that I can do it, I shall surely acquire the capacity to do it even if I may not have it at the beginning.”
- Mahatma Gandhi
“You can never cross the ocean unless you have the courage to lose sight of the shore.”
- Christopher Columbus
“To a brave man, good and bad luck are like his left and right hand. He uses both.”
- St Catherine of Siena
“When one door of happiness closes, another opens, but often we took so long at the closed door that we do not see the one that has been opened up for us”
- Helen Keller
“We don’t see the things the way they are. We see things the way WE are.”
- Talmund
“Every problem has in it the seeds of its own solution. If you don’t have any problems, you don’t get any seeds.”
- Norman Vincent Peale
“If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.”
- Dr Wayne Dyer
“The problem is not that there are problems. The problem is expecting otherwise and thinking that having problems is a problem.”
- Theodore Rubin
“Pessimist : A person who says that O is the last letter of ZERO, instead of the first letter in word OPPORTUNITY.”
- Anonymous
“Opportunity is missed by most people because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work.”
- Thomas A Edison
“Blessed are those who can give without remembering and take without forgetting”
- Elizabeth Bibesco
“Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery. And today? Today is a gift. That’s why we call it the present.”
- B. Olatunji
“When you get to the end of the rope, tie a knot and hang on.”
- Franklin D Roosevelt
“Your attitude, not your aptitude, determines your altitude.”
- Zig Ziglar
“If you’re going through hell, keep going.”
- Winston Churchill
“The secret to success is to start from scratch and keep on scratching.”
- Dennis Green
“Champions aren’t made in gyms. Champions are made from something they have deep inside them a desire, a dream, a vision. They have to have the skill and the will. But the will must be stronger than the skill.”
- Muhammad Ali
“Most of the important things in the world have been accompanied by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all.”
- Dale Carnegie
“So many of our dreams at first seems impossible, then they seem improbable, and then, when we summon the will, they soon become inevitable.”
- Christopher Reeve
“Hard work spotlights the character of people. Some turn up their sleeves. Some turn up their noses, and some don’t turn up at all.”
- Sam Ewing
“There are those who work all day. Those who dream all day. And those who spend an hour dreaming before setting to work to fulfill those dreams. Go into the third category because there’s virtually no competition.”
- Steven J Ross
“Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.”
- Confucious
“Many of life’s failures are people who had not realized how close they were to success when they gave up.”
- Thomas A Edison
“The main thing is to keep the main thing the main thing.”
- Stephen Covey
“Efficiency is doing things right. Effectiveness is doing the right things.”
- Peter Drucker
“Do you know what happens when you give a procrastinator a good idea? Nothing!”
- Donald Gardner
“Success is what you attract by the person you become.”
- Jim Rohn
“You have to ‘Be’ before you can ‘Do’ and ‘Do’ before you can ‘Have’.
- Zig Ziglar
“You can have everything in life that you want if you will just help enough other people to get what they want.”
- Zig Ziglar
“The test we must set for ourselves is not to march alone but to march in such a way that others wish to join us.”
- Hubert Humphrey
“Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus when the limo breaks down.”
- Oprah Winfrey
“Formal education will make you a living. Self education will make you a fortune.”
- Jim Rohn
“It isn’t what the book costs. It’s what it will cost you if you don’t read it.”
- Jim Rohn
“You must be the change you want to see in the world.”
- Mahatma Gandhi
“The future has several names. For the weak, it is the impossible. For the fainthearted, it is the unknown. For the thoughtful and valiant, it is the ideal.”
- Victor Hugo
“There is nothing more genuine than breaking away from the chorus to learn the sound of your own voice.”
- Po Bronson
“Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.”
- Waldo Emerson
“Use what talents you possess, the woods will be very silent if no birds sang there except those that sang best.”
- Henry van Dyke
“Do not fear to be eccentric in opinion, for every opinion now accepted was once eccentric.”
- Bertrand Russell
“History will be kind to me, for I intend to write it.”
- Winston Churchill
“Life isn’t about finding yourself. Life’s about creating yourself.”
- George Bernard Shaw
“Live your life each day as you would climb a mountain. An occasional glance towards the summit keeps the goal in mind, but many beautiful scenes are to be observed from each new vintage point.”
- Harold B Melchart
“The tragedy of life doesn’t lie in not reaching your goal. The tragedy lies in having no goals to reach.”
- Benjamin Mays
“More often in life, we end up regretting the chances in life that we had, but didn’t take them, than those chances that we took and wished we hadn’t.”
- Anonymous
“An excuse is worse and more terrible than a lie, for an excuse is a lie guarded.”
- Pope John Paul I
“Don’t wish it were easier, wish you were better. Don’t wish for fewer problems, wish for more skills. Don’t wish for less challenges, wish for more wisdom.”
- Earl Shoaf
Monday, August 25, 2008
Is India that bad!!!!!
Suddenly i came to know that my another cousine planning to go abroad for further stdies and god knows planning to settle there only i guess!!!
I observed now a days all students just enter in the college and starts dreaming on going abroad for further studies, for better job as well as the pay..It has become normal trend now days specially for guys ya even girls too but less extent than the guys...
I dont understand why people neglects India so much.. Whenever i ask them, all gives me almost similar answer like earn double or triple or may be more than that than what you earn in India in initial years and come back or sometimes stay there for better qualitative life !!! which you dont get in INDIA.
Hmm. somehow i dont agree with this... Why will put later on.. some work so need to stop here...
I observed now a days all students just enter in the college and starts dreaming on going abroad for further studies, for better job as well as the pay..It has become normal trend now days specially for guys ya even girls too but less extent than the guys...
I dont understand why people neglects India so much.. Whenever i ask them, all gives me almost similar answer like earn double or triple or may be more than that than what you earn in India in initial years and come back or sometimes stay there for better qualitative life !!! which you dont get in INDIA.
Hmm. somehow i dont agree with this... Why will put later on.. some work so need to stop here...
Wednesday, August 20, 2008
Learn new thing in a day....
Hmm.. just got one idea that everyday will learn something new... whatever it might be...
suddenly cliked in my mind thoguht to put it so that will keep reminding me that.. AMI need to learn something new for a day.................Dont know everyday its actually possible or not but lets c how far it goes..
suddenly cliked in my mind thoguht to put it so that will keep reminding me that.. AMI need to learn something new for a day.................Dont know everyday its actually possible or not but lets c how far it goes..
Thursday, August 7, 2008
Wednesday, August 6, 2008
Frustration
This word is really bad...... which all of us will face at some point of time...
Like me i am frustueted with so many things........:((because things are not moving as i was thinking or i can say the way i had thought off!!!
First of all i dont know what to do to come out of it.. but i am really trying very hard for it and whosoever way i can... and bad part is ur frusturstion cant show to others!! In life certain things you cant able to make someone understand or can say you dont have anyone who will understand it in right manner or rasther you can say ypu dont want someone to share with you.....
Like me i am frustueted with so many things........:((because things are not moving as i was thinking or i can say the way i had thought off!!!
First of all i dont know what to do to come out of it.. but i am really trying very hard for it and whosoever way i can... and bad part is ur frusturstion cant show to others!! In life certain things you cant able to make someone understand or can say you dont have anyone who will understand it in right manner or rasther you can say ypu dont want someone to share with you.....
Tuesday, July 29, 2008
Nice gift from my dear friend
Today Dhiral has sent one poem specially for me....it is so good so thought to put on my blog.. Thanks dhirallllllllllllllllllll
so close in my heart
yet so far away
i think about u
everyday
I'm sitting here
all alone
wishing i could talk to u
staring at the phone
Everything was perfect
nothing could go wrong
now I'm stuck somewhere
i feel i don't belong
I love you so much
my very best friend
we were supposed to be together
until the very end
Memories of yesterday
linger in my mind
of all the things
I left behind
I wish i could turn back time
to when i was free
so full of life
just u and me
Id freeze that moment
and hold it tight
everything would be perfect
and feel so right
Days turn into months
months turn into years
I'm forever missing u
wishing u were here
You'll always be missed
but Your forever in my heart
i will never 4get
the day we had to part
So until the day
we can meet again
goodbye for now
my best-est friend
so close in my heart
yet so far away
i think about u
everyday
I'm sitting here
all alone
wishing i could talk to u
staring at the phone
Everything was perfect
nothing could go wrong
now I'm stuck somewhere
i feel i don't belong
I love you so much
my very best friend
we were supposed to be together
until the very end
Memories of yesterday
linger in my mind
of all the things
I left behind
I wish i could turn back time
to when i was free
so full of life
just u and me
Id freeze that moment
and hold it tight
everything would be perfect
and feel so right
Days turn into months
months turn into years
I'm forever missing u
wishing u were here
You'll always be missed
but Your forever in my heart
i will never 4get
the day we had to part
So until the day
we can meet again
goodbye for now
my best-est friend
Thursday, July 17, 2008
Which is better Arranged marriage or Love marriage??
Hmm sounds interesting topic na.... Yes today i am in the mood to write something general but important topic and not on me.... hehehehe.. bus bahot likh diya mere baare me !!!!
Yes First of all I believe whether its arranged or love ,Marriage is the most important part of everyone's life. That's why no one wants to take any chance for that matter..and sounds logical too..... No one likes to be unhappy or would like to spoil life ....
I believe majority of people believes love marriage is better than another one... hmmm might be because in that case people feels they have selected the partner after knowing each other better way..
In arranged ya there is always fear that whether is it the same as you expect or something different......Ya risk is more in arranged that i agree.... but ya i would like to put Hindi movies common dialogue what female actress says " HOW CAN TWO UNKNOWN PERSON CAN MARRY "!!! :-0))))))
Anyway see now i would like to share reality what i observed. Now a days either male or female became more self centered as well as serious for their own life. All remains so much occupied with either studies or professional life or own life of interest that its very less time to think for someone else. What i mean to say people really dont care or think on this topic very seriously until they realised that everyone needs someone special in life... by that time you realise its too late to find someone and end up doing arranged marriage which is really struggle i must say :)))) and most of my friends will do agree :-)))..
Now main topic which is better..
What i feel is marriage either arranged or love,finally important is to get right partner with whom you can spend rest of your life more meaningfully and happily than any other person in the world. Only thing is to finding out such person it can be arranged or love doesn't matter much to me...
Yes First of all I believe whether its arranged or love ,Marriage is the most important part of everyone's life. That's why no one wants to take any chance for that matter..and sounds logical too..... No one likes to be unhappy or would like to spoil life ....
I believe majority of people believes love marriage is better than another one... hmmm might be because in that case people feels they have selected the partner after knowing each other better way..
In arranged ya there is always fear that whether is it the same as you expect or something different......Ya risk is more in arranged that i agree.... but ya i would like to put Hindi movies common dialogue what female actress says " HOW CAN TWO UNKNOWN PERSON CAN MARRY "!!! :-0))))))
Anyway see now i would like to share reality what i observed. Now a days either male or female became more self centered as well as serious for their own life. All remains so much occupied with either studies or professional life or own life of interest that its very less time to think for someone else. What i mean to say people really dont care or think on this topic very seriously until they realised that everyone needs someone special in life... by that time you realise its too late to find someone and end up doing arranged marriage which is really struggle i must say :)))) and most of my friends will do agree :-)))..
Now main topic which is better..
What i feel is marriage either arranged or love,finally important is to get right partner with whom you can spend rest of your life more meaningfully and happily than any other person in the world. Only thing is to finding out such person it can be arranged or love doesn't matter much to me...
Sunday, July 13, 2008
:(((
I am not understanding ....But something is happening with me.. I think i am changing....
I dont know but becasue of some past incidents i am somwhow dont feel like to trust any one easily.... Sometime I fails to understand the people. I really cant make out what is going on someone mind even if i know that person very closely from long time... :((((
Dont know..........
I dont know but becasue of some past incidents i am somwhow dont feel like to trust any one easily.... Sometime I fails to understand the people. I really cant make out what is going on someone mind even if i know that person very closely from long time... :((((
Dont know..........
Friday, July 11, 2008
Capricious - unpredictable , impulsive
A capricious winterstorm,
stringent rulers often act capriciously.
having a tendency to sudden unpredictable changes of attitude or behaviour
I do not understand the capricious lewdness of the sleeping mind
stringent rulers often act capriciously.
having a tendency to sudden unpredictable changes of attitude or behaviour
I do not understand the capricious lewdness of the sleeping mind
Tuesday, July 8, 2008
Reincarnation -Reborn
Reincarnation is the belief that when one dies, one's body decomposes, but something of oneself is reborn in another body.
Thursday, July 3, 2008
Why Blog???????
Good question!!!!
Few days back one of my friend asked why you write blogs?
So here is the answer madam !!!!!
I write blogs as i like writing.
I feel I should be able to express my thoughts / feelings in words so blog helps me for that.
Even my blogs are not only for wrting random thoughts. I also put it down articles which i like no matter even if it is copy paste :PPP
Ultimately you should do the hings which makes you happy and i feel that when i write :PPP I dont want to be writer please....................
Few days back one of my friend asked why you write blogs?
So here is the answer madam !!!!!
I write blogs as i like writing.
I feel I should be able to express my thoughts / feelings in words so blog helps me for that.
Even my blogs are not only for wrting random thoughts. I also put it down articles which i like no matter even if it is copy paste :PPP
Ultimately you should do the hings which makes you happy and i feel that when i write :PPP I dont want to be writer please....................
Callow - immatured
Immature or inexperienced: a callow youth.
Bald
Unflaged Young bird
Shallow or weak willed
Bald
Unflaged Young bird
Shallow or weak willed
Wednesday, July 2, 2008
Remorse :(((( Personal Regret
It is an emotional expression of personal regret - that is, the emotion felt by the injurer after he or she has injured.
Remorse is closely allied to guilt and self directed resentment.
Buyer's remorse" is the concept of regretting a purchase after the fact of buying it.
Regretting one's earlier action or failure to act may be because of remorse or to various other consequences, including being punished for it
Remorse is closely allied to guilt and self directed resentment.
Buyer's remorse" is the concept of regretting a purchase after the fact of buying it.
Regretting one's earlier action or failure to act may be because of remorse or to various other consequences, including being punished for it
Monday, June 30, 2008
Friday, June 27, 2008
Thursday, June 26, 2008
Comrade means friends..
Comrade means friend who shares common activities or occupation or group or associate.
It means friend, colleague or ally.
The term originally carried a strong military connotation, and referred to a roommate.
Political used to mean "a fellow socialist" or "a fellow communist.
Also used to narrate companion in battle or fellow soldier
Can also used to replace title replacing Mr,Mrs, Miss,Ms.
It means friend, colleague or ally.
The term originally carried a strong military connotation, and referred to a roommate.
Political used to mean "a fellow socialist" or "a fellow communist.
Also used to narrate companion in battle or fellow soldier
Can also used to replace title replacing Mr,Mrs, Miss,Ms.
Wednesday, June 25, 2008
New Idea..........
Today in the morning when i was travelling for office got one idea to do some new time pass....
Will find out one english word which we dont use in our day to day life and will find out where to use that floury word..... lets see it will work out or not.. but pavan feels its good idea :)))) chalo atleast my cousine apprciates me that good.. hmm will find some one by end of the day!!!!!
Will find out one english word which we dont use in our day to day life and will find out where to use that floury word..... lets see it will work out or not.. but pavan feels its good idea :)))) chalo atleast my cousine apprciates me that good.. hmm will find some one by end of the day!!!!!
Expectations...................
Our limitations and success will be based, most often, on your own expectations for ourselves. What the mind dwells upon, the body acts upon.”
Very rightly said our success depends on your own expectation and determination to expect and limitation on expectation stops us to think beyond that....
Yes what I feel expectation is necessary for myself to grow and achieve but to keep expecting from others is not the right way.....
See world around us.. All people keep expecting . In home my mom expects ami should be best in behaviour all the time with all. She expects i should be the best home maker who knows everything cooking, cleaning .. etc.. etc...
My dad ami should be very intelligent, competitive, independent etc.. etc...
In office our boss expects you should work hard and do all the routine work at the best at the same time you should be creative and keep doing new things ...
Your friend's expect from you to be sharing , help full, caring etc.. etc...
so what i am trying to say that whole world around us expect from us even i do as i am normal human being.... but what i feel is people should also understand someones streghth as well as weakness as human being per se... All can't be perfect and can't behave the way you think all the time.....
Me always feel that I should have expectations in life so that i can work hard to achieve it but i dont enforce my expectation on anyone that you should this that... Its me who expects and not the person from whom i am expecting from her/ him....
Very rightly said our success depends on your own expectation and determination to expect and limitation on expectation stops us to think beyond that....
Yes what I feel expectation is necessary for myself to grow and achieve but to keep expecting from others is not the right way.....
See world around us.. All people keep expecting . In home my mom expects ami should be best in behaviour all the time with all. She expects i should be the best home maker who knows everything cooking, cleaning .. etc.. etc...
My dad ami should be very intelligent, competitive, independent etc.. etc...
In office our boss expects you should work hard and do all the routine work at the best at the same time you should be creative and keep doing new things ...
Your friend's expect from you to be sharing , help full, caring etc.. etc...
so what i am trying to say that whole world around us expect from us even i do as i am normal human being.... but what i feel is people should also understand someones streghth as well as weakness as human being per se... All can't be perfect and can't behave the way you think all the time.....
Me always feel that I should have expectations in life so that i can work hard to achieve it but i dont enforce my expectation on anyone that you should this that... Its me who expects and not the person from whom i am expecting from her/ him....
Tuesday, June 24, 2008
A Lovely Poem by Shri Rabindranath Tagore
Go not go to the temple to put flowers upon the feet of God,
First fill your own house with the Fragrance of love...
Go not go to the temple to light candles before the altar of God,
First remove the darkness of sin from your heart...
Go not go to the temple to bow down your head in prayer,
First learn to bow in humility before your fellowmen...
Go not go to the temple to pray on bended knees,
First bend down to lift someone who is down-trodden. ..
Go not go to the temple to ask for forgiveness for your sins,
First forgive from your heart those who have sinned against you
First fill your own house with the Fragrance of love...
Go not go to the temple to light candles before the altar of God,
First remove the darkness of sin from your heart...
Go not go to the temple to bow down your head in prayer,
First learn to bow in humility before your fellowmen...
Go not go to the temple to pray on bended knees,
First bend down to lift someone who is down-trodden. ..
Go not go to the temple to ask for forgiveness for your sins,
First forgive from your heart those who have sinned against you
Friday, June 20, 2008
Ufffffff Hectic Day...........
Today was most hectic day for me!!!! I was in meeting for almost full day.. and that to with my boss who is expert in giving orders in the meeting. From next time on do this do that......Oh my GOD.....Too much he is... The problem is he is too much enthusiasm as well as expects a lot from people. But he need to understand his expectation won;t match anyway... now i am with full of work......Whenever such big meeting takes place i always overloaded with work:)))
Secondly his mind just runs and it is difficult for me to grasp everything what he just keep on talking as if we work in the environment where everything is available on click of the button but anyway boss is always right and i say YES BOSS :)) Now i will think peacefully what exactly he wants....
Hmm another point for the day is sometime I feel that even you are right as well as another persona against you is also equally right. It is just situation and approach in tackling issue make both person to think differently.....Anyway today it is enough with meeting so need to some tp.. :)))
Secondly his mind just runs and it is difficult for me to grasp everything what he just keep on talking as if we work in the environment where everything is available on click of the button but anyway boss is always right and i say YES BOSS :)) Now i will think peacefully what exactly he wants....
Hmm another point for the day is sometime I feel that even you are right as well as another persona against you is also equally right. It is just situation and approach in tackling issue make both person to think differently.....Anyway today it is enough with meeting so need to some tp.. :)))
Thursday, June 5, 2008
Power of Positive Talk APJ Kalam
This is really good article. Rightly said power positive thinking and talk......
I remember my dad teaching me the power of language at a very young age. Not only did my dad understand that specific words affect our mental pictures, but he understood words are a powerful programming factor in lifelong success.
One particularly interesting event occurred when I was eight. As a kid, I was always climbing trees, poles, and literally hanging around upside down from the rafters of our lake house. So, it came to no surprise for my dad to find me at the top of a 30-foot tree swinging back and forth. My little eight-year-old brain didn't realize the tree could break or I could get hurt. I just thought it was fun to be up so high.
My older cousin, Tammy, was also in the same tree. She was hanging on the first big limb, about ten feet below me. Tammy's mother also noticed us at the exact time my dad did. About that time a huge gust of wind came over the tree. I could hear the leaves start to rattle and the tree begin to sway. I remember my dad's voice over the wind yell, "Bart, Hold on tightly." So I did. The next thing I know, I heard Tammy screaming at the top of her lungs, laying flat on the ground. She had fallen out of the tree.
I scampered down the tree to safety. My dad later told me why she fell and I did not. Apparently, when Tammy's mother felt the gust of wind, she yelled out, "Tammy, don't fall!" And Tammy did… fall.
My dad then explained to me that the mind has a very difficult time processing a negative image. In fact, people who rely on internal pictures cannot see a negative at all. In order for Tammy to process the command of not falling, her nine-year-old brain had to first imagine falling, then try to tell the brain not to do what it just imagined. Whereas, my eight-year-old brain instantly had an internal image of me hanging on tightly.
This concept is especially useful when you are attempting to break a habit or set a goal. You can't visualize not doing something. The only way to properly visualize not doing something is to actually find a word for what you want to do and visualize that. For example, when I was thirteen years old, I played for my junior high school football team. I tried so hard to be good, but I just couldn't get it together at that age. I remember hearing the words run through my head as I was running out for a pass, "Don't drop it!" Naturally, I dropped the ball.
My coaches were not skilled enough to teach us proper "self-talk." They just thought some kids could catch and others couldn't. I'll never make it pro, but I'm now a pretty good Sunday afternoon football player, because all my internal dialogue is positive and encourages me to win. I wish my dad had coached me playing football instead of just climbing trees. I might have had a longer football career.
Here is a very easy demonstration to teach your kids and your friends the power of a toxic vocabulary. Ask them to hold a pen or pencil. Hand it to them. Now, follow my instructions carefully. Say to them, "Okay, try to drop the pencil." Observe what they do.
Most people release their hands and watch the pencil hit the floor. You respond, "You weren't paying attention. I said TRY to drop the pencil. Now please do it again." Most people then pick up the pencil and pretend to be in excruciating pain while their hand tries but fails to drop the pencil.
The point is made.
If you tell your brain you will "give it a try," you are actually telling your brain to fail. I have a "no try" rule in my house and with everyone I interact with. Either people will do it or they won't. Either they will be at the party or they won't. I'm brutal when people attempt to lie to me by using the word try. Do they think I don't know they are really telegraphing to the world they have no intention of doing it but they want me to give them brownie points for pretended effort? You will never hear the words "I'll try" come out of my mouth unless I'm teaching this concept in a seminar.
If you "try" and do something, your unconscious mind has permission not to succeed. If I truly can't make a decision I will tell the truth. "Sorry John. I'm not sure if I will be at your party or not. I've got an outstanding commitment. If that falls through, I will be here. Otherwise, I will not. Thanks for the invite."
People respect honesty. So remove the word "try" from your vocabulary.
My dad also told me that psychologists claim it takes seventeen positive statements to offset one negative statement. I have no idea if it is true, but the logic holds true. It might take up to seventeen compliments to offset the emotional damage of one harsh criticism.
These are concepts that are especially useful when raising children.
Ask yourself how many compliments you give yourself daily versus how many criticisms. Heck, I know you are talking to yourself all day long. We all have internal voices that give us direction.
So, are you giving yourself the 17:1 ratio or are you shortchanging yourself with toxic self-talk like, " I'm fat. Nobody will like me. I'll try this diet. I'm not good enough. I'm so stupid. I'm broke, etc. etc."
If our parents can set a lifetime of programming with one wrong statement, imagine the kind of programming you are doing on a daily basis with your own internal dialogue. Here is a list of Toxic Vocabulary words.
Notice when you or other people use them.
Ø But: Negates any words that are stated before it.
Ø Try: Presupposes failure.
Ø If: Presupposes that you may not.
Ø Might: It does nothing definite. It leaves options for your listener.
Ø Would Have: Past tense that draws attention to things that didn't actually happen.
Ø Should Have: Past tense that draws attention to things that didn't actually happen (and implies guilt.)
Ø Could Have: Past tense that draws attention to things that didn't actually happen but the person tries to take credit as if it did happen.
Ø Can't/Don't: These words force the listener to focus on exactly the opposite of what you want. This is a classic mistake that parents and coaches make without knowing the damage of this linguistic error.
Examples:
Toxic phrase: "Don't drop the ball!"
Likely result: Drops the ball
Better language: "Catch the ball!"
Toxic phrase: "You shouldn't watch so much television."
Likely result: Watches more television.
Better language: "I read too much television makes people stupid. You might find yourself turning that TV off and picking up one of those books more often!"
Exercise: Take a moment to write down all the phrases you use on a daily basis or any Toxic self-talk that you have noticed yourself using. Write these phrases down so you will begin to catch yourself as they occur and change them.
I remember my dad teaching me the power of language at a very young age. Not only did my dad understand that specific words affect our mental pictures, but he understood words are a powerful programming factor in lifelong success.
One particularly interesting event occurred when I was eight. As a kid, I was always climbing trees, poles, and literally hanging around upside down from the rafters of our lake house. So, it came to no surprise for my dad to find me at the top of a 30-foot tree swinging back and forth. My little eight-year-old brain didn't realize the tree could break or I could get hurt. I just thought it was fun to be up so high.
My older cousin, Tammy, was also in the same tree. She was hanging on the first big limb, about ten feet below me. Tammy's mother also noticed us at the exact time my dad did. About that time a huge gust of wind came over the tree. I could hear the leaves start to rattle and the tree begin to sway. I remember my dad's voice over the wind yell, "Bart, Hold on tightly." So I did. The next thing I know, I heard Tammy screaming at the top of her lungs, laying flat on the ground. She had fallen out of the tree.
I scampered down the tree to safety. My dad later told me why she fell and I did not. Apparently, when Tammy's mother felt the gust of wind, she yelled out, "Tammy, don't fall!" And Tammy did… fall.
My dad then explained to me that the mind has a very difficult time processing a negative image. In fact, people who rely on internal pictures cannot see a negative at all. In order for Tammy to process the command of not falling, her nine-year-old brain had to first imagine falling, then try to tell the brain not to do what it just imagined. Whereas, my eight-year-old brain instantly had an internal image of me hanging on tightly.
This concept is especially useful when you are attempting to break a habit or set a goal. You can't visualize not doing something. The only way to properly visualize not doing something is to actually find a word for what you want to do and visualize that. For example, when I was thirteen years old, I played for my junior high school football team. I tried so hard to be good, but I just couldn't get it together at that age. I remember hearing the words run through my head as I was running out for a pass, "Don't drop it!" Naturally, I dropped the ball.
My coaches were not skilled enough to teach us proper "self-talk." They just thought some kids could catch and others couldn't. I'll never make it pro, but I'm now a pretty good Sunday afternoon football player, because all my internal dialogue is positive and encourages me to win. I wish my dad had coached me playing football instead of just climbing trees. I might have had a longer football career.
Here is a very easy demonstration to teach your kids and your friends the power of a toxic vocabulary. Ask them to hold a pen or pencil. Hand it to them. Now, follow my instructions carefully. Say to them, "Okay, try to drop the pencil." Observe what they do.
Most people release their hands and watch the pencil hit the floor. You respond, "You weren't paying attention. I said TRY to drop the pencil. Now please do it again." Most people then pick up the pencil and pretend to be in excruciating pain while their hand tries but fails to drop the pencil.
The point is made.
If you tell your brain you will "give it a try," you are actually telling your brain to fail. I have a "no try" rule in my house and with everyone I interact with. Either people will do it or they won't. Either they will be at the party or they won't. I'm brutal when people attempt to lie to me by using the word try. Do they think I don't know they are really telegraphing to the world they have no intention of doing it but they want me to give them brownie points for pretended effort? You will never hear the words "I'll try" come out of my mouth unless I'm teaching this concept in a seminar.
If you "try" and do something, your unconscious mind has permission not to succeed. If I truly can't make a decision I will tell the truth. "Sorry John. I'm not sure if I will be at your party or not. I've got an outstanding commitment. If that falls through, I will be here. Otherwise, I will not. Thanks for the invite."
People respect honesty. So remove the word "try" from your vocabulary.
My dad also told me that psychologists claim it takes seventeen positive statements to offset one negative statement. I have no idea if it is true, but the logic holds true. It might take up to seventeen compliments to offset the emotional damage of one harsh criticism.
These are concepts that are especially useful when raising children.
Ask yourself how many compliments you give yourself daily versus how many criticisms. Heck, I know you are talking to yourself all day long. We all have internal voices that give us direction.
So, are you giving yourself the 17:1 ratio or are you shortchanging yourself with toxic self-talk like, " I'm fat. Nobody will like me. I'll try this diet. I'm not good enough. I'm so stupid. I'm broke, etc. etc."
If our parents can set a lifetime of programming with one wrong statement, imagine the kind of programming you are doing on a daily basis with your own internal dialogue. Here is a list of Toxic Vocabulary words.
Notice when you or other people use them.
Ø But: Negates any words that are stated before it.
Ø Try: Presupposes failure.
Ø If: Presupposes that you may not.
Ø Might: It does nothing definite. It leaves options for your listener.
Ø Would Have: Past tense that draws attention to things that didn't actually happen.
Ø Should Have: Past tense that draws attention to things that didn't actually happen (and implies guilt.)
Ø Could Have: Past tense that draws attention to things that didn't actually happen but the person tries to take credit as if it did happen.
Ø Can't/Don't: These words force the listener to focus on exactly the opposite of what you want. This is a classic mistake that parents and coaches make without knowing the damage of this linguistic error.
Examples:
Toxic phrase: "Don't drop the ball!"
Likely result: Drops the ball
Better language: "Catch the ball!"
Toxic phrase: "You shouldn't watch so much television."
Likely result: Watches more television.
Better language: "I read too much television makes people stupid. You might find yourself turning that TV off and picking up one of those books more often!"
Exercise: Take a moment to write down all the phrases you use on a daily basis or any Toxic self-talk that you have noticed yourself using. Write these phrases down so you will begin to catch yourself as they occur and change them.
Monday, June 2, 2008
What to do change the routine
Ya something strange as usual....
Hmm i was thinking why i feel that everyday has become routine now a days. It is so boring... as usual come to office and go back to home!!!
Actually I think lot many things to do in a day but either due to laziness or due to lack of time i finally end up doing nothing or little... I always feel either time is short or am i lazy..... God knows but ya just by thinking and thinking time will go and i will not do anything so i should start thinking what next i shld do change some routine part....or to do something new...... which anyway my passion..........:))
please advice friends................
Hmm i was thinking why i feel that everyday has become routine now a days. It is so boring... as usual come to office and go back to home!!!
Actually I think lot many things to do in a day but either due to laziness or due to lack of time i finally end up doing nothing or little... I always feel either time is short or am i lazy..... God knows but ya just by thinking and thinking time will go and i will not do anything so i should start thinking what next i shld do change some routine part....or to do something new...... which anyway my passion..........:))
please advice friends................
Friday, May 16, 2008
Fight between Enthusiasum and Determination
Ya.. today i was bit free.... after long time writing my thoughts...
One thing always troubles me is imbalance between enthusiasm and my determination to implement :(:(
I can see myself as highly self motivated as well as enthusiastic person where my mind always diverts and get attracted at new things... i always start out new things with josh but finally when i try to implement i don't know what happens to me it goes for toss or my enthusiasm gets lost....:(( I am sure many of my Friends must have observed it... such kind of situation is dangerous i believe.. Either one should not have enthu or should have capabilities as well as determination to achieve what you think..
I always see myself as girl who wants everything and has enough enthu too but it just lapses over a time..
I know dhiral will definitely going to comment that ami your blogs are always full of philosophy which doesn't suits U :))) but that's what i am !!! You know other side of personality.........:)))))))))))))))
One thing always troubles me is imbalance between enthusiasm and my determination to implement :(:(
I can see myself as highly self motivated as well as enthusiastic person where my mind always diverts and get attracted at new things... i always start out new things with josh but finally when i try to implement i don't know what happens to me it goes for toss or my enthusiasm gets lost....:(( I am sure many of my Friends must have observed it... such kind of situation is dangerous i believe.. Either one should not have enthu or should have capabilities as well as determination to achieve what you think..
I always see myself as girl who wants everything and has enough enthu too but it just lapses over a time..
I know dhiral will definitely going to comment that ami your blogs are always full of philosophy which doesn't suits U :))) but that's what i am !!! You know other side of personality.........:)))))))))))))))
Thursday, April 24, 2008
Meri Kahani Atif Aslam..............
Today in the morning i listen this song..........and i am just lured with lyrics...........can't resist myself so firsting to put in my blog.............too coollllllllllllllllll ye meri kahani......................
Its Atif Aslam ablum ye meri kahani
Jhola Jhulaye Yeh Panghat
Nadiya Kinare Yeh Aangan
Neendiya To Aana Hawa Ke Sang
Mujhko Bhi Tu Dikhana Apne Rang
Suno Mere Dil Jani Yeh Kahani Mani
Ek Din Mere Sang Yeh Jahan Tha
Mera Kuch Or Tera Hi Arman
Jane Dil Main Kya Kuch Yeh Basa Tha
Yeh Meri Hai Kahani
Yeh Meri Kahani
Jhola Jhulaye Yeh Panghat
Nadiya Kinare Yeh Aangan
Neendiya To Aana Hawa Ke Sang
Mujhko Bhi Tu Dikhana Apne Rang
Tera Mera Galiyoon Main Yun Phirna
Phirte Phirte Raat Ko Yun Thakna
Thak Ke Nani Ki Godi Main Sona
Pariyoon K Desh Ja Ke Nahaana
Yeh Meri Hai Kahani
Yeh Meri Kahani
Koi Fikar Thi Na Koi Bahana
Muthi Main Tha Jaise Yeh Zamana
Kachi Zuban Main Wo Geet Gana
Naye Khilone Sab Ko Dikhana
Man Liya Zindagi Se Zyda
Chin Gaya Woh Jisne Kya Wada
Kaun Laye Woh Pal Jo Suhane
Beete The Jo Woh Guzre Zamane
Yeh Meri Hai Kahani
Yeh Meri Kahaniiiiiiiiiii
La La La ......Lal Lalaaa
Its Atif Aslam ablum ye meri kahani
Jhola Jhulaye Yeh Panghat
Nadiya Kinare Yeh Aangan
Neendiya To Aana Hawa Ke Sang
Mujhko Bhi Tu Dikhana Apne Rang
Suno Mere Dil Jani Yeh Kahani Mani
Ek Din Mere Sang Yeh Jahan Tha
Mera Kuch Or Tera Hi Arman
Jane Dil Main Kya Kuch Yeh Basa Tha
Yeh Meri Hai Kahani
Yeh Meri Kahani
Jhola Jhulaye Yeh Panghat
Nadiya Kinare Yeh Aangan
Neendiya To Aana Hawa Ke Sang
Mujhko Bhi Tu Dikhana Apne Rang
Tera Mera Galiyoon Main Yun Phirna
Phirte Phirte Raat Ko Yun Thakna
Thak Ke Nani Ki Godi Main Sona
Pariyoon K Desh Ja Ke Nahaana
Yeh Meri Hai Kahani
Yeh Meri Kahani
Koi Fikar Thi Na Koi Bahana
Muthi Main Tha Jaise Yeh Zamana
Kachi Zuban Main Wo Geet Gana
Naye Khilone Sab Ko Dikhana
Man Liya Zindagi Se Zyda
Chin Gaya Woh Jisne Kya Wada
Kaun Laye Woh Pal Jo Suhane
Beete The Jo Woh Guzre Zamane
Yeh Meri Hai Kahani
Yeh Meri Kahaniiiiiiiiiii
La La La ......Lal Lalaaa
Thursday, April 17, 2008
Society not ready to help..............
Have you ever noticed anytime small incident represent the human mentality!!!!! Today i was just observing one incidence in train and it gave some idea about the this is how the society is!!!!!
Today as usual i was travelling by train for office in the morning. As i was late for office i went into second class coach. I was seating at last seat. I saw one small girl say 10 years of age asking for some money. I though she might be beggar and asking for it. I was looking her from right extreme end of coach as i was seating on the next corner of the coach. At last she reached upto seat where i was siting and i realised that she was not beggar she was asking for change of 50 Rs. as she sold safety pin worth of Rs. 5 to one lady and lady didn't had change. I gave her change of Rs 50.
Its just day to day routine experience but see the society. I cant believe that in the coach where more than 70 ladies were standing or sitting doesn't carry a change of Rs 50 !!!.
It shows how the society behaves. What harm in helping a Small girl who is just asking for change!!!. Anyway this incident touched me so thought to put it in blog...
Today as usual i was travelling by train for office in the morning. As i was late for office i went into second class coach. I was seating at last seat. I saw one small girl say 10 years of age asking for some money. I though she might be beggar and asking for it. I was looking her from right extreme end of coach as i was seating on the next corner of the coach. At last she reached upto seat where i was siting and i realised that she was not beggar she was asking for change of 50 Rs. as she sold safety pin worth of Rs. 5 to one lady and lady didn't had change. I gave her change of Rs 50.
Its just day to day routine experience but see the society. I cant believe that in the coach where more than 70 ladies were standing or sitting doesn't carry a change of Rs 50 !!!.
It shows how the society behaves. What harm in helping a Small girl who is just asking for change!!!. Anyway this incident touched me so thought to put it in blog...
Thursday, April 10, 2008
Wednesday, April 9, 2008
Why things doesn't move as u expect!!!!!!
Right now i am facing very difficult phase.... I am doing the things which i dont want to........ Ya bit confusing but that is what it is happening with me.....
I don't like any tension in life but now a days every day some or other problem i am facing.....
I don't like to be serious but because of problems i can't chill out even if i wanted to :(
I don't like to force my self to do work which i don't wanted to but that is what i am doing...
God knows when i will come out from all of this. ya but that is sure i have not gave up ..... God give me strength and wisdom please.....
I don't like any tension in life but now a days every day some or other problem i am facing.....
I don't like to be serious but because of problems i can't chill out even if i wanted to :(
I don't like to force my self to do work which i don't wanted to but that is what i am doing...
God knows when i will come out from all of this. ya but that is sure i have not gave up ..... God give me strength and wisdom please.....
Monday, April 7, 2008
Dont be straight forward..........
I made another experience in life which i will never forget now on!!!!
I always like to talk upfron to the people specially to people to whom i am close and i feel something more than just acquinties in my life but i think people dont like my attitude.......Sometime i really feel why people can't accept or listen what is truth is!!!. As i always try to see that some another person should tell me on my face when they dont like abt something which i behaved or talked on.. but to be frank i have very less people who tells me this...
So its like people likes rosy picture around you even if xomething is wrong just keep mum on it and behave as if everything is fine......... anyway even i will aslo feel like to change my self and do tit for tat.........
So my expereince says me you should not be so much streight foraward as human being doesn't like this.........
I always like to talk upfron to the people specially to people to whom i am close and i feel something more than just acquinties in my life but i think people dont like my attitude.......Sometime i really feel why people can't accept or listen what is truth is!!!. As i always try to see that some another person should tell me on my face when they dont like abt something which i behaved or talked on.. but to be frank i have very less people who tells me this...
So its like people likes rosy picture around you even if xomething is wrong just keep mum on it and behave as if everything is fine......... anyway even i will aslo feel like to change my self and do tit for tat.........
So my expereince says me you should not be so much streight foraward as human being doesn't like this.........
Thursday, March 27, 2008
Nature smiles at you
This image i received from my dear freind......... i feel dam cool by looking at this picture........ I like nature says me just smile in life howsoever screwed up you are...........
Thinking makes me lost :)))))))
I really don't understand sometime i feel something different even if nothing got changed around me!!!! but i gets feeling like nothing is there with me although everything is intact and will remain!!!! People calls me "Dhooni" sometimes...Dhooni means people who always remain in their own world but if you ask me actually its not like that.... i sometimes think so many topics at a time that people around me feels i am lost :))) anyway i don't give any explnation to anyone....
I hope people should not feel that Ami has become mad.. :))
I hope people should not feel that Ami has become mad.. :))
Sunday, March 23, 2008
Holi hain :))))))))
This time I was dam excited for the Holi.. As it was kavita's first holi after her marrige and our gang had decided to play holi with Kavita and Raju........
We went to pooja's place and had very nice time with them..But kavita ditched us she went early with Raju :((((
All were behaving like kid... and Ami kamani although she doesn't like colours at all she also enjoyed...... :)))
But i enjoyed more when we went to pooja's freind place..... he he he.. ya specially with aunty( Her freind's mom)......I met her for the first time in life but she was behaving with me as if she knows me from years and she enjoyed with us as if she is also young I like her chillness and happy going attitude.. than we did ran dance........ ya.. in their building :))))Dhiral enjoyed a lot in ran dance and started showing her kiddiness...........Earlier she was giving us look life oh you kids bus abhi he he he.........
I realised first time that you can even enjoyed with strangers too... ya...
In the evening i went for Race and nice dinner in Urban Tadka....... yes so overall it was rocking day.. thats true when you r with your freind or near and dear one's you surely will enjoy..........
Life is cool and enjoy all part of it....
We went to pooja's place and had very nice time with them..But kavita ditched us she went early with Raju :((((
All were behaving like kid... and Ami kamani although she doesn't like colours at all she also enjoyed...... :)))
But i enjoyed more when we went to pooja's freind place..... he he he.. ya specially with aunty( Her freind's mom)......I met her for the first time in life but she was behaving with me as if she knows me from years and she enjoyed with us as if she is also young I like her chillness and happy going attitude.. than we did ran dance........ ya.. in their building :))))Dhiral enjoyed a lot in ran dance and started showing her kiddiness...........Earlier she was giving us look life oh you kids bus abhi he he he.........
I realised first time that you can even enjoyed with strangers too... ya...
In the evening i went for Race and nice dinner in Urban Tadka....... yes so overall it was rocking day.. thats true when you r with your freind or near and dear one's you surely will enjoy..........
Life is cool and enjoy all part of it....
Thursday, March 20, 2008
What is Love?
Hmm its very difficult question to all human being specially people like us who never fall in love yet........ya its true....... i have not fall in love with anyone...:(((((( People says its your bad luck.. might be but its true... guju it says "kadva such"
First of all i got so much of love from my parents, relatives, freinds, collegues all the people around me, i really didn;t felt yet that someone special should be there !!!!!......might be if someone will come than my phylosophy will change :)) hope so.........
Hmm So come to the point.. for me love is person who accepts you as you are!!!!Who understands you.. who like you even if you are wrong........ who doesn't feel you should need to be change as he/ she wants you to be....... Person who feel he/she is most comfortable person in the universe with whom he/she can share all sorrows, problems, happiness ... ya all people want someone who feels equally happy for you for your own happiness........
Thats it.. i might be wrong as i didn't come across such person yet.... may GOD bless me...............
First of all i got so much of love from my parents, relatives, freinds, collegues all the people around me, i really didn;t felt yet that someone special should be there !!!!!......might be if someone will come than my phylosophy will change :)) hope so.........
Hmm So come to the point.. for me love is person who accepts you as you are!!!!Who understands you.. who like you even if you are wrong........ who doesn't feel you should need to be change as he/ she wants you to be....... Person who feel he/she is most comfortable person in the universe with whom he/she can share all sorrows, problems, happiness ... ya all people want someone who feels equally happy for you for your own happiness........
Thats it.. i might be wrong as i didn't come across such person yet.... may GOD bless me...............
Monday, March 10, 2008
Kite Ajeeb Rishtey..............
This is one of the faviourte song with nice lyrics sang by Lata Mangeshkar........
kitne ajeeb rishtey hai yaha pe
do pal milte hai saath saath chalte hai
jab mod aaye toh bach ke nikalte hai
kitne ajeeb rishtey hai yaha pe
do pal milte hai saath saath chalte hai
kitne ajeeb rishtey hai yaha pe
yaha sabhi apni hi dhun main deewane hai -
kare wahi jo apna dil ki hi mane hai
kaun kisko pooche kaun kisko bole
sabke labon par apne tarane hai
le jaye nasib kisiko kahape
kitne ajeeb rishtey hai yaha pe
khwaabon ki yeh duniya hai khwaaboh main hi rehna hai
raahen le jaye jaha sangh sangh chalna hai
waqt ne hamesha yaha naye khel khele
kutch bhi ho jaye yaha bas khush rehna hai
manzil lage kareeb sabko yahape
kitne ajeeb rishtey hai yaha pe
do pal milte hai saath saath chalte hai
jab mod aaye toh bach ke nikalte hai
kitne ajeeb rishtey hai yaha pe
kitne ajeeb rishtey hai yaha pe
do pal milte hai saath saath chalte hai
jab mod aaye toh bach ke nikalte hai
kitne ajeeb rishtey hai yaha pe
do pal milte hai saath saath chalte hai
kitne ajeeb rishtey hai yaha pe
yaha sabhi apni hi dhun main deewane hai -
kare wahi jo apna dil ki hi mane hai
kaun kisko pooche kaun kisko bole
sabke labon par apne tarane hai
le jaye nasib kisiko kahape
kitne ajeeb rishtey hai yaha pe
khwaabon ki yeh duniya hai khwaaboh main hi rehna hai
raahen le jaye jaha sangh sangh chalna hai
waqt ne hamesha yaha naye khel khele
kutch bhi ho jaye yaha bas khush rehna hai
manzil lage kareeb sabko yahape
kitne ajeeb rishtey hai yaha pe
do pal milte hai saath saath chalte hai
jab mod aaye toh bach ke nikalte hai
kitne ajeeb rishtey hai yaha pe
Tuesday, March 4, 2008
Tuesday, February 26, 2008
Why i think so much................
I have unique problem of thinking more than what actually require.. Its put me in trouble as i finally end up with taking wrong decision or making simple thing more complex... i really don't know what to do :(
Anyway might be something good in that too..
Secondly I have to gear up for studies as finally i decided to write CFA level I in Dec 07... so this time i should not take it lightly as well as overconfident. I hope things take place in the way i thought of....
Now i really wanted to think what exactly i want professionally as well as personally from life as i have decided but not analysed it where i need to improve or what to do to achieve it...Even day by day by i am losing interest in current job and it became boring so i have to look out for that too...as early as possible
Anyway might be something good in that too..
Secondly I have to gear up for studies as finally i decided to write CFA level I in Dec 07... so this time i should not take it lightly as well as overconfident. I hope things take place in the way i thought of....
Now i really wanted to think what exactly i want professionally as well as personally from life as i have decided but not analysed it where i need to improve or what to do to achieve it...Even day by day by i am losing interest in current job and it became boring so i have to look out for that too...as early as possible
Tuesday, February 19, 2008
Kevi's Wedding (16/02/08)
Hey...... on last saturday kavita got married.. one of th most innocent and simple gal i ever seen.... Sometime i wonder why she is so adjustable!!!!!! and i can say she has all qualities of simple girl any boy expect as a life partner....... but i miss her as now she will become busy in her life and mr Raju......
Secondly now a days some strange incidents happens in my life which i never expereinced or not came across yet such kind of ppl...
First i experienced in kevi's wedding that was little bit shocking but i think i handeled the issue matured way.. i can't narrate the issue as it is family matter.. but in world now i think u should be very carefull wile interacting wd people..as all are not the same as they show or look...
Secondly now a days some strange incidents happens in my life which i never expereinced or not came across yet such kind of ppl...
First i experienced in kevi's wedding that was little bit shocking but i think i handeled the issue matured way.. i can't narrate the issue as it is family matter.. but in world now i think u should be very carefull wile interacting wd people..as all are not the same as they show or look...
Friday, February 15, 2008
Random writing
I dont know... i am bored so writing just to change my attention..... hmm what to write.......as such nothing special at all and every movement something to say....kya re why i became so philosophical !!!!!!!!!!!
ppl in office dont like if i remain serious so i keep on cracking jokes just to make them happy and lively enviornment... sometime it feels gud that becz of my stupid jokes someone laughs....cool...
i think i dont have topic to write....
ppl in office dont like if i remain serious so i keep on cracking jokes just to make them happy and lively enviornment... sometime it feels gud that becz of my stupid jokes someone laughs....cool...
i think i dont have topic to write....
Friday, February 1, 2008
You never know what will happen after 5 sec.......
Yeah life is highly uncertain.... You will never know what will going to happen with you next day or probably even within one hour. This is absolutely correct in my case..
JUst before one week i was crying and cribbing to my freind that i am not getting proper work or not properly got stand in my company but again from monday onwards i can see proper shape and work which is specifically assigned to me.. so i am happy now
I was frustrated upto that extent that my mom came to know and once she knows something she will become sad as i am not happy.. so sweet she is . even she called up amik to find out what wrong with me.. on mom please some one tell her please don't take care so much !!!!!!!!!. Really sometime i really wonder how can be someone so much possessive abt someone.. but in my mom case yes... she is too much possessive abt me but i think i don't give her what she expects from me.... will try... as i always remain in my own world with so much of random thoughts.....
Anyway my happy days are back i hope it will countinue.........
JUst before one week i was crying and cribbing to my freind that i am not getting proper work or not properly got stand in my company but again from monday onwards i can see proper shape and work which is specifically assigned to me.. so i am happy now
I was frustrated upto that extent that my mom came to know and once she knows something she will become sad as i am not happy.. so sweet she is . even she called up amik to find out what wrong with me.. on mom please some one tell her please don't take care so much !!!!!!!!!. Really sometime i really wonder how can be someone so much possessive abt someone.. but in my mom case yes... she is too much possessive abt me but i think i don't give her what she expects from me.... will try... as i always remain in my own world with so much of random thoughts.....
Anyway my happy days are back i hope it will countinue.........
Sunday, January 20, 2008
The women : at current scenario
I have received nice fwd from my friend.. This mail is drafted very nicely which express the feelings of girls like us.
I wish all of us get the partner who will understand this...
This is a beautiful article: The women in your life
Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry her with these facts as well. Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are; Who is earning almost as much as you do;
One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are;
One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements
One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;
One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family ,
name One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen
One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;
One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities; Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply Because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise
One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;
One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important, relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her so and trust her;
One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it. But not many guys understand this...... Please appreciate "HER"
I wish all of us get the partner who will understand this...
This is a beautiful article: The women in your life
Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry her with these facts as well. Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are; Who is earning almost as much as you do;
One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are;
One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements
One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;
One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family ,
name One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen
One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;
One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities; Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply Because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise
One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;
One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important, relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her so and trust her;
One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it. But not many guys understand this...... Please appreciate "HER"
Thursday, January 17, 2008
GO AS LIFE TAKES YOU :(((
Today i had new experience in life where i experienced lack of confidence in myself.. not first time but this time it was that extent that i lost gud opportunity i think... :(((
Anyway i was knowing facts that i am not able to expressed the things in the way i should answer being professional as well as experienced of three years!!!!!!!! I know i have this weakness of not expressing things properly but i was not knowing the fact this might affect the opportunities in professional life too.... any way no need to discuss to much just feeling sad about it:((((. but Ami k told its life yaar and u just went for time pass so i am taking in positive manner and i think question of changing job will stop now as i think from today's experienced i realised i am not excelled in the field where i have to go.. so got idea that still long way to go.....Anyway but people says without experience you will not realise where you are wrong so got lesson .....i am expressionless this time don't know what to do ahead but thinking to concentrate on the life it is going... earlier i was not believing the fact of " GO WHERE LIFE TAKES YOU" but i think now i need to accept it... i always try to mold my life in the way which i thought of....... but i think life is not so simple and the way i was looking it :(( too much philosophical today as i am little bit sad :(((( but not gave up..... common Ami try to motivate your self and go ahead.............
Anyway i was knowing facts that i am not able to expressed the things in the way i should answer being professional as well as experienced of three years!!!!!!!! I know i have this weakness of not expressing things properly but i was not knowing the fact this might affect the opportunities in professional life too.... any way no need to discuss to much just feeling sad about it:((((. but Ami k told its life yaar and u just went for time pass so i am taking in positive manner and i think question of changing job will stop now as i think from today's experienced i realised i am not excelled in the field where i have to go.. so got idea that still long way to go.....Anyway but people says without experience you will not realise where you are wrong so got lesson .....i am expressionless this time don't know what to do ahead but thinking to concentrate on the life it is going... earlier i was not believing the fact of " GO WHERE LIFE TAKES YOU" but i think now i need to accept it... i always try to mold my life in the way which i thought of....... but i think life is not so simple and the way i was looking it :(( too much philosophical today as i am little bit sad :(((( but not gave up..... common Ami try to motivate your self and go ahead.............
Tuesday, January 1, 2008
My favourite Snap on 31st eve with poo....
Me and poo.......on 31st eve.....this is one of my favourite snap....
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