Friday, November 30, 2007

What to do to be successfull

Would like to share advice given to me by HR consultant Mr. Allen Doutlan ( Ex VP in Taj) as well as Mr. Len D' Costa (Ex HR consultant for TCS).

I had been interview by above mentioned external HR consultants. One of them gave gr8 advice for success not directly but shared his friend's success story who is CEO of XXXX company .

Actually we were discussing issue of compensation. He told us that rating , appraisal and all will become issue when employee delivers what is being expected and completes as part of job but there are people who don't care for grade, rating and and just delivers result more than expected.

He told when you deliever more than what is expected by your boss, no one can stop you to receive highest compensation as boss will know your potential and he will be scared of getting hived of by competitors.So definitely you will receive without demanding........

He shared his friend experience who is CEO doesn't having extra ordinary mind or intelligent but has skill to manage his life and enthusiasm to do better than others do and deliver more than what is expected.

He told he also enjoys his personal life too because when he is with family he devotes 100% of time with them so even if others devotes more time with family still its not as effective and wealthy.

Even if its more of gyan or bhashan and not related to interview is being held for, I liked his advice. I don't know whether am i going to implement it or not but would like to put in record and take as note of it......

Wednesday, November 21, 2007

Why so??

From last so many days i have not post as i was busy with my work for a change which occupied me full day.. Seriously now i can understand what is mental tired ness!!!!!! Sometime i become so restless in the evening that i don't pick up my cell too :((( As if i don't feel to talk with anyone or cut phone calls very fast.....
Anyway even if i am busy today too but suddenly in my mind i got one question... why so????
Not creating suspense of why so its abt me..
Sometime i speak with so much of confidence with people that i really feel gud but some time i become so nervous and unsecured that i can't express things properly. offcourse this depends on individual with whom i am interacting but i really don't understand why so?? becz i know i am very confident abt my self but still some time i feel am i really interacting at my original nature and confidence !!!!!!.. it can be personal or official too.... I hope this things will be cleared out fast ..... can anyone has answer on this stupid question:DDD

Friday, November 2, 2007

"Golden college days………….."

Today one of my friend commented on me why don’t you put something which is written by you rather than to do copy paste so just thought let me write about my best part of life off course my golden college days which I will never forget…………

Yeah so I joined NM college.. Its NARSEE MONJEE COLLEGE……… the moment I say I was in NM !!!!!!! people around me will see me as if I am dam intelligent that’s image my college has……. And I proudly say to the people that Yessss.... I was in NM!!!!!!..

Apart from fame NM gave me a lot. The place which gave me everything…….. Because of NM I met few of close friends who all are my pals and will remain forever… Because of NM I got good education and I learnt how to fight and met with world who are more intelligent and smart so crowd made me more competitive and gave me strength to grow…..and may be that could be reason I cracked CA exams.

In NM I was most mischievous and talkative girl. I think in a year my college id was taken minimum 12-13 times by professors even in TY BCOM too he he.. but that doesn’t mean I was not serious about studies I was very serious about my CA and really worried and tensed that whether finally I will become CA or not?? May be less confidence on my self but GOD grace I did it!!!!! Really on those days I used to feel people who clears CA in first attempt must be dam intelligent and what not!!!!! I used to c my senior who cracked in first attempt as if he/she as if they are some genius but now I can imagine how innocent and fool I was :-) anyway its matter of time……….

I can imagine those days…. bunking classes, spending more time in canteen, gossiping, running for notes at exam times in fact I used to buy book before 15 days of the exams some time not even bought books he he …….., those college days..... saree day, rose day, friendship day and most important umang festival and pronites…..

I can’t imagine how much serious I became now and now I changed a lot……….Really all those who says College days are golden period of my life its true for me too………

Those college days of NM
How pleasurable were they,
Of whose friendship I am glad to win,
Years hence recall this time that knows no dearth
Ah! the remembrance of these happy days,
The music and the laughter and the wit,
Age shall grow me with the thought of it.