What can I do other than Job?
Hmm.. I was thinking since last few days that what I can do other than Job......I mean if at one point of time if I decide that no I don't want to job.. do i have any other skills so that I can develop it and can go ahead with it.. well as of now I really can't think any... and that's really sad :(((
I think at present whatver I am doing is good but I really don't know where will I end up? I mean I really not gaining any expertise in any field and that was not my motive.. I was thinking in past that I will work in for all possible areas and will decide on where I can fit in properly.. but unfortunately..I am not able to...
Sometime I really feel scared for future...I mean although I have work experience but its really don't show any expertise for any particular Field...which scares me....
I think for all this I don't have any control in my hand. I just did whatever was coming on my way.......that's sad that I feel all is not proper or might be I am confused..
This is random writing.. i know sometimes I really become crazy :PP
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
Saturday, September 26, 2009
meanings
Agnostic: is people who believes we can't know if there's a GOD
Athesit : is certain that there is n't one
Athesit : is certain that there is n't one
Thursday, September 24, 2009
Does all friends remains with you forever?
This is really interesting question........Now a days I feel that all relations don't remain for life time. It just breaks either due to lost of contact or due to lack of bonding....
What I have experienced is some of close friend actually are not so close to me now. we have started thinking differently.. our likes and dislikes which were same earlier, are now not same!!!!Our way of thinking also changed..etc... etc..because of that what I feel is I am not so comfortable with them as I was earlier.. Even now I spend my most of time with new surrounding...that might also be reason......
But ya luckily I do have very few people which I think will never change relations with me as we grow up.....
What I have experienced is some of close friend actually are not so close to me now. we have started thinking differently.. our likes and dislikes which were same earlier, are now not same!!!!Our way of thinking also changed..etc... etc..because of that what I feel is I am not so comfortable with them as I was earlier.. Even now I spend my most of time with new surrounding...that might also be reason......
But ya luckily I do have very few people which I think will never change relations with me as we grow up.....
Monday, September 21, 2009
estranged
Meaning and how to use...
Synonyms: estrange, alienate, disaffect
These verbs refer to disruption of a bond of love, friendship, or loyalty. Estrange and alienate are often used with reference to two persons whose harmonious relationship has been replaced by hostility or indifference: Political disagreements led to quarrels that finally estranged the two friends. His persistent antagonism alienated his wife.
Disaffect usually implies discontent, ill will, and disloyalty within the membership of a group: Colonists were disaffected by the royal governor's actions.
Adjective
1. no longer living with one's husband or wife: his estranged wife
2. having quarrelled and lost touch with one's family or friends: I am estranged from my son [from Latin extraneus foreign
Synonyms: estrange, alienate, disaffect
These verbs refer to disruption of a bond of love, friendship, or loyalty. Estrange and alienate are often used with reference to two persons whose harmonious relationship has been replaced by hostility or indifference: Political disagreements led to quarrels that finally estranged the two friends. His persistent antagonism alienated his wife.
Disaffect usually implies discontent, ill will, and disloyalty within the membership of a group: Colonists were disaffected by the royal governor's actions.
Adjective
1. no longer living with one's husband or wife: his estranged wife
2. having quarrelled and lost touch with one's family or friends: I am estranged from my son [from Latin extraneus foreign
Tuesday, September 15, 2009
Thursday, September 10, 2009
inner ego sometimes makes you lonely
This is really wonderfull mail I received today. Its really true for me...I mean I have not lost relationship because of my inner ego against misjudegment of outer appearnace.. but yes becuase of my inner ego I am not so close to so many people. which I could be if I have not restricted myself.. Its not becz of their appearnce.. but might be my way of thinking or attitude didn't match with all of them...
How our inner Ego sometimes misjudges a PERSON
A lady in a faded grey dress and her husband, dressed in a home-spun suit walked in timidly without an appointment into the Harvard University President's outer office. The secretary could tell in a moment that such backwoods, country hicks had no business at Harvard and probably didn't even deserve to be in Harvard. "We want to see the President "the ma n said softly.
"He'll be busy all day "the secretary snapped.
"We'll wait" the lady replied.
For hours the secretary ignored them, hoping that the couple would finally become discouraged and go away. They didn't and the secretary grew frustrated and finally decided to disturb the president..
"Maybe if you see them for a few minutes, they'll leave" she said to him. The President, stern faced and with dignity, strutted toward the couple.
The lady told him "We had a son who attended Harvard for one y ear. He loved The lady told him "We had a son who attended Harvard for one y ear. He loved Harvard. He was happy here. But about a year ago, he was accidentally killed. My husband and I would like to erect a memorial to him, somewhere on campus."
The president wasn't touched....He was shocked. "Madam "he said, gruffly, " we can't put up a statue for every person who attended Harvard and died. If we did, this place would look like a cemetery."
"Oh, no," the lady explained quickly” We don't want to erect a statue. We thought we would like to give a building to Harvard."
The president rolled his eyes. He glanced at the gingham dress and homespun suit, and then exclaimed, "A building! Do you have any earthly idea how much a building costs? We have over seven and a half million dollars in the physical buildings here at Harvard."
For a moment the lady was silent. The president was pleased. Maybe he could get rid of them now. The lady turned to her husband and said quietly, "Is that all it costs to start a university ? Why don't we just start our own?"
Her husband nodded. The president's face wilted in confusion and bewilderment. Mr. and Mrs. Leland Stanford got up and walked away, traveling to Palo Alto, California where they established the University that bears their name: -StanfordUniversity, a memorial to a son that Harvard no longer cared about.
Most of the time we judge people by their outer appearance, which can be misleading. And in this impression, we tend to treat people badly by thinking they can do nothing for us. Thus we tend to lose our potential good friends, employees or customers.
Remember
In our Life, we seldom get people with whom we want to share & grow our thought process. But because of our inner EGO we miss them forever.
It is you who have to decide with whom you are getting associated in day to day life.
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Thanks & Regards,
Ami
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How our inner Ego sometimes misjudges a PERSON
A lady in a faded grey dress and her husband, dressed in a home-spun suit walked in timidly without an appointment into the Harvard University President's outer office. The secretary could tell in a moment that such backwoods, country hicks had no business at Harvard and probably didn't even deserve to be in Harvard. "We want to see the President "the ma n said softly.
"He'll be busy all day "the secretary snapped.
"We'll wait" the lady replied.
For hours the secretary ignored them, hoping that the couple would finally become discouraged and go away. They didn't and the secretary grew frustrated and finally decided to disturb the president..
"Maybe if you see them for a few minutes, they'll leave" she said to him. The President, stern faced and with dignity, strutted toward the couple.
The lady told him "We had a son who attended Harvard for one y ear. He loved The lady told him "We had a son who attended Harvard for one y ear. He loved Harvard. He was happy here. But about a year ago, he was accidentally killed. My husband and I would like to erect a memorial to him, somewhere on campus."
The president wasn't touched....He was shocked. "Madam "he said, gruffly, " we can't put up a statue for every person who attended Harvard and died. If we did, this place would look like a cemetery."
"Oh, no," the lady explained quickly” We don't want to erect a statue. We thought we would like to give a building to Harvard."
The president rolled his eyes. He glanced at the gingham dress and homespun suit, and then exclaimed, "A building! Do you have any earthly idea how much a building costs? We have over seven and a half million dollars in the physical buildings here at Harvard."
For a moment the lady was silent. The president was pleased. Maybe he could get rid of them now. The lady turned to her husband and said quietly, "Is that all it costs to start a university ? Why don't we just start our own?"
Her husband nodded. The president's face wilted in confusion and bewilderment. Mr. and Mrs. Leland Stanford got up and walked away, traveling to Palo Alto, California where they established the University that bears their name: -StanfordUniversity, a memorial to a son that Harvard no longer cared about.
Most of the time we judge people by their outer appearance, which can be misleading. And in this impression, we tend to treat people badly by thinking they can do nothing for us. Thus we tend to lose our potential good friends, employees or customers.
Remember
In our Life, we seldom get people with whom we want to share & grow our thought process. But because of our inner EGO we miss them forever.
It is you who have to decide with whom you are getting associated in day to day life.
--
Thanks & Regards,
Ami
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